To be sure, it is not easy deciding which secondary school your child will end up in this September. I know because I have been through it. Oftentimes, you are stuck between vision and grandeur; between social skills and academic excellence; and between freedom and morality. You wonder if you should elevate the elitist over the pragmatic. You weigh the fees on the balance of your earnings. Then, you wonder if you should let go off your precious children into a boarding school or hold onto them through their formative years.